Hey! I'm back.
Do you know that:
“Good friends care for each other, close friends understand each other but true friend stays forever, beyond words, distance and beyond time!”
A friend also the one who overlooks your broken fence and admires the flowers in your garden. It is a connection that lasts longer than any because of the one and only element in it which even love-relationship lacks that is no expectations. I can say that many of us have friends in our lives over the years. Some of them we make since children and lose contact when we grow older. However, it does not mean that you lose your friends. It goes to me.
About two years ago, I went through a period of change. I’m growing up, overwhelmed and messed feeling. I lose contact with my high school bestfriends. They said I’ve changed. I said they have changed. But! We are changed. University life made us busy. We are even do not have time to take a proper meal and a proper good sleep. I’m not trying to mention this, but yeah, this made our friendship becomes bad. Well, well, well, procrastinating is not good obviously. It comes from ourselves. Procrastinating becomes our habit, sleepless nights also becomes our routine. No wonder if we always blame each other because of not spend a little bit time in 24 hours to ask about each other’s condition.
About two years ago, I went through a period of change. I’m growing up, overwhelmed and messed feeling. I lose contact with my high school bestfriends. They said I’ve changed. I said they have changed. But! We are changed. University life made us busy. We are even do not have time to take a proper meal and a proper good sleep. I’m not trying to mention this, but yeah, this made our friendship becomes bad. Well, well, well, procrastinating is not good obviously. It comes from ourselves. Procrastinating becomes our habit, sleepless nights also becomes our routine. No wonder if we always blame each other because of not spend a little bit time in 24 hours to ask about each other’s condition.
However! It is getting better day by day, month by month. Maturity helps us a lot. Even though we are not contacting each other every day, but we know that we care. We understand each other’s priorities. Having them is like a blessing from God to me. It is such a blessed. I can’t say much because no words can describe everything they do to me. Their kindness. Yes! Understanding, be kind and add some do crazy things together help you, you, you and you closer to your bestfriends.
So here, can I live without my friends? Can you live without your bestfriends? Can we live without your shoulder partner? It is a big no-no! Friends help us a lot. Filling our day with their laugh and tears, comforting you when life gets harder. Never ever hurts them, backstabbing friends becomes an issue in this millennium life. Once you did it, there is no way for you to step back. So, be good to your friends! Appreciate them even they do small good things to you!
From me, to you, friends! Bye!
That's a beautiful sharing. Lovely!
ReplyDeleteIt’s true, as time pass we change. When I grow up I want to change but change to become a better person
ReplyDeleteno doubt that I too, need my friends in my life!
ReplyDeleteas soon as we finished our high school years, most of our friends will continue on their own paths. But what's most important is whenever you have free time, don't forget to contact them because you will never know when you need them.
ReplyDeleteNice and good job :)
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